It is vitally important that every man knows when a girl is flirting with them. This is for two very obvious reasons. One, he needs to know when a women is actually flirting with him. The guy needs to know the codes, the signals, and the signs that mean a women is interested, and that, if he plays his cards right and responds correctly, he can get laid right now. If he is no good at reading these types of signs, then this poor sucker might lose the chance of a lifetime (believe me, it has happened to me more times that I can remember. Each one still haunts me.). Reason number two is the opposite. Every guys also has to know when a women is not flirting with them. This means that they can refrain from being a dick and hitting on the women who really does just need directions, or their boss that just wants them to stay late to finish the project.
In that vein, here are the top 6 signs that a women is flirting with you. The nearer you get to six, the more you know that the only place this women wants you is bed…
This is the trickiest of the lot to gauge. Is she just smiling because she is nice, or smiling because she is happy you are there. On its own you cannot see whether this is a flirting sign, and should only be considered in relation to others. But without it, you can be sure that she is not flirting. Smiling frames our face in an attractive manner and helps people see us as confident and happy. If she doesn’t care about you seeing her like this, she doesn’t care about you.
Another one that can be difficult to work out. Everyone should maintain eye contact, but in reality people are always distracted and looking all over the place. If a women is locking eyes with you then she is a confident girl, which is always a plus, but also it means that she is checking you out and looking at your eyes, and also that she only has eyes, and thoughts, for you at that point in time, and if you notice, you can take advantage.
If a girl starts asking about you and your life it should be an obvious sign something is up. Maybe she is trying to recruit you for undercover work and wants to know your background, or maybe she wants to get laid. Either way, cool. Questions are a giveaway when it comes to flirting. Everyone is going to ask the general questions about what you do and where you come from, but once you get in to more arcane questions, like, what is the name of your favorite cartoon character, or what do you think of the music of Korn, then you can be sure that she is trying to get to know you better because she wants to take things further.
This is the first of the big tells when it comes to flirting. If a women starts to get into your personal space, standing just a step too close to you, or perhaps even wanting to dance, then she is very interested. This is the first of the sexual mimicry flirting signs, the ways we flirt which really shows that we want sex. She wants to be close to you right now, as a means to get even closer to you in the coming hours.
Oh boy! No not like that. If she is touching herself like that then I am pretty sure we have passed the flirting phase. No, what I mean is the preening touches, or the accentuation touches that women, and men, do when they really like someone and want to show off. She will start to play with her hair, showing you how nice it is and combing through it with her hands. She also might touch her lips, or adapt her posture to show off any natural assets she might have. Whenever you have got a girl touching herself, then really she wants you touching her there.
OK, now we are getting heavy. If a girl touches you, if only lightly and playfully, it probably means that she would be more than happy for you to touch her back. This is really a test and a come on. Firstly, she is testing to see how you react. Do you pull away in shock? Unlikely, but she wants to make sure. It is also her way of showing how soft her touch is. At this point, you mind cannot help but start to think about her touching you elsewhere and how good that might be, at which point, her flirting job is done.